Men Have Feelings Too - Why Do Married Men Cheat? Part 2

On January 18, 2017, the "Why do married men cheat" series officially launched. Today, part two will be brought to you without delay. Unresolved lust is another reason why married men cheat. This deceitful adversary hides within the heart, plagues the mind, and will sabotage any relationship if it isn't aggressively apprehended. Men, especially married men, often underestimate the power of lust and its associated desires. Just so you know, lust is defined as an uncontrolled sexual desire or appetite. The KEY word that we will be focusing upon is 'uncontrolled.'

Every day, men are bombarded with sexual content. Women dressing provocatively on the street or in the marketplace, the music videos we all love to watch, and the pornographic material that most of us crave are all examples of this phenomenon. Believe it or not, each one of these examples constantly feeds our appetites for more. If these sources aren't enough to tip our lustful scales towards compromise, allow me to add a few more less obvious triggers to this conversation.

When any man has had any sexual experiences prior to him getting married, occasionally, these past experiences will attempt to creep back into his life. This invasion is often unannounced and under certain circumstances, his old flame(s) will reappear too. Talk about unfair, how is a man supposed to stay faithful to his wife when his ex-lover(s) did things to his body that his wife won't even attempt. Not to mention, what if he's secretly fantasizing about a blast from his past while he's preparing for sex with his wife. It's situations like these that periodically compete with every ounce of faithfulness within his body. Let me say this, the more sexual experiences a man has had will ultimately determine the amount of difficulty he must endure regarding his variability to unresolved lust. 

Let me take this conversation up one more level. One practical way a married man tries to logically cope with this lustful imbalance is by having a consistent "love-life" with his wife. In the husband's defense, God Almighty originally designed marriage as a means for him and his wife to mutually meet one another's sexual needs. Therefore, to him, his wife represents his ONLY acceptable outlet for this type of expression. In the wife's defense, why should she be required to subject herself to his uncontrollable desires given that they were essentially created by someone else other than herself? Therefore, to her, his needs seem to be a never-ending chore. Now, here comes the juicy part. Over the course of time, what do you think will happen within his heart and mind if his wife constantly refuses to humble herself to meet his sexual needs? It's at this pivotal point, he's left with the following options: One, masturbate; two, engage in another activity that he prayerfully hopes will temporarily take his mind off his apparent need; three, cross the line of fidelity. Most, if not all the time, options one and three are realistic byproducts of an intermittent "love life" with his wife and unresolved lust.

Until next time...

Walter Hunter
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Men Have Feelings Too - What is the Purpose of a Woman?

"What's the purpose of a woman?" Why were women created in the first place?" If you were to ask the average man this question, most of them will say that women were created solely for a man's sexual pleasure. Now, I'll agree that one part of their purpose is to assist us with procreation; however, this can't be the sum of who she is. You mean to tell me this extremely creative, detail oriented, nurturing helper is only good for one thing? If you are a man and you wholeheartedly believe that sex is the only reason for a woman's existence, then you are exceedingly misinformed. One of the reasons why women are abused, disregarded, and endangered is because men at large don't know nor do they understand her worth, importance, or purpose. Unfortunately, the vast majority of women don't know this information either. That's why many women always seem to sell themselves short. Anytime you don't know the specific purpose of something, YOU WILL ABUSE IT! If you hang around here from time to time, I'll educate you on who she is, her purpose, and why she's more valuable that pure gold.    

Until next time...

Walter Hunter
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Men Have Feelings Too - I Don't Understand Her

"I don't understand her" is one of the greatest silent cries that most men face. Generally, this simple yet profound statement surfaces after an intense argument or any other unproductive conversation with your wife, fiancé, girlfriend, or side chick. Any man who has ever thought or uttered these words indelibly knows the gut-wrenching frustration, anger, and hopelessness one feels surrounding this confession. What's even worst is feeling this exact way without having a healthy outlet to defuse it. Most of the time, the standard prescription for this type of situation is immediate silence and distance, demonstrating a harsh demeanor, and turning to one of our favorite "habits" to "gather ourselves." Although most of us know this customary routine won't resolve our current issue(s) with her, at least it provides a temporal safe haven for reflection.

Until next time...

Walter Hunter
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Men Have Feelings Too - Who's Your Daddy?

Who's your daddy? Quite often this humorous question is casually tossed around in a joking manner, especially when it's used as a sexual undertone. The bitter reality of the matter is this harsh question isn't comical at all. There are countless fatherless victims who wake up every single day with the frightening anxiety, unquenchable pain, and overwhelming disparity of not knowing who their daddy is. Although it's unimaginable to perceive, there are many individuals who couldn't pick their father out of a line up if their lives depended upon it. How heartbreaking is this? For the brave few who decide to embark upon this demoralizing quest for closure, they will soon meet one of these unpleasant realities: a twisted trail of lies, many unanswered questions, and their hearts filled with anger all because the deceit, betrayal, and bitterness they'll discover along the way will be exceedingly more than what they bargained for. Make no mistake about it, none of these victims willingly chose this path of indifference on their own. In fact, they were abandoned, left for dead, and forced to figure out the inner workings of this extremely cold world all by themselves. What's even worse is many of these broken individuals remain damaged, then they’ll give birth to another generation thus perpetuating this vicious cycle.

Until next time...

Walter Hunter
walter@menhavefeelingstoo.com
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