Men Have Feelings Too - Why Do Married Men Cheat? Part 3

Men Have Feelings Too is at it again with Part 3 of our series, "Why Do Married Men Cheat." Before I reveal the next reason, I want to encourage you to value and respect your marriages. What do you do, how do you feel, or what's your mindset when you don't trust your spouse? Better yet, what about when you believe your spouse doesn't trust you? Five, four, three, two, one...The lack of trust is another reason why married men cheat. Since trust covers a very wide spectrum, let's jump right into the shallow end of the pool. Maybe, we'll get an opportunity to develop the rest of the film later.

First and foremost, trust is the backbone of any relationship. Within the masculine world, a woman's undeniable trust is paramount to everything she will believe. Initially, it's pure and saturated with innumerable liberties and concessions. However, the very moment it's compromised, it will cause the victim to doubt and question every motive and action demonstrated by the violator. This is where things can get a little tricky.

Generally, when a man violates a woman's trust, he expects her to be understanding, forgiving, and to quickly return back to how things used to be prior his violation. To him, a kiss is just a kiss. Better yet, sex is just sex. I know this may be hard for most women to comprehend but within his mind, he honestly believes his feelings weren't attached to his actions. He was simply caught up in the moment. As a result, he'll become exceedingly annoyed when he discovers that he can't sell this concept to his victim. Furthermore, if he's left in this state too long, he'll become tremendously frustrated with her and the relationship to the point of cheating again or leaving altogether.

Conversely, when he's the victim or believes she's being unfaithful, inwardly he knows that she was physically involved with whomever because of emotional attachment. This makes this situation difficult for most men to reason through. Typically, after the news breaks, he'll find immediate justification within his heart to be harsh or violent towards her regardless of her reasoning. In many cases, he will reciprocate to get even or cut her off altogether because he also knows he'll never be able to reclaim that piece of her heart that has been compromised forever.        

Until next time...

Walter Hunter
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Men Have Feelings Too - Help Me to Understand Part 2

Due to an overwhelming response to a post that was released on March 14, 2017 entitled, "Help Me to Understand", I had to write an addendum. According to many sources, a transgender is an individual who's gender identity or expression doesn't correspond with their birth sex. Based upon observation, most who are committed to this type of expression will overcompensate in an attempt to convince themselves and others they are who they appear to be. If this isn't enough, many will go through the 'process' of becoming the gender they inwardly desire. Why is there an overwhelming inner longing to alter your gender or an attempt to redefine your role? Why aren't you happy with the person whom you were created to be or the person who once stared back at you in the mirror? Who told you that you couldn't be a feminine looking female that's attracted to women or a masculine looking male that's attracted to men?

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Walter Hunter
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Men Have Feelings Too - Help Me to Understand

Although I know this topic is considered forbidden and controversial, we're going to discuss it anyway. Can anyone help me to understand the following scenarios? If a woman prefers other women, why does she believe that she must mimic a man's appearance and mannerisms to attract those women? Likewise, if a man prefers other men, why does he believe that he must mimic a woman's appearance and mannerisms to attract those men? Why can't that individual be a feminine female who prefers women or a masculine male who prefers men without compromising their masculinity or femininity? It seems to me that this individual is confused and is trying to convince themselves and others that they actually are the gender they're desperately hoping to identify with.

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Walter Hunter
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Men Have Feelings Too - What's Your Purpose?

By the show of hands, can anyone tell me their purpose? Not the purpose you have chosen for yourself based upon your own natural talents and abilities or the one that was given to you by someone else. What I'm getting at is the main reason why you were born. If you think for one second that you just showed up on this planet by happenstance, then you're deceived and misguided. Frankly, if you don't know the reason(s) for your existence then this one thing is true, YOU'RE wasting valuable time aimlessly chasing an imaginary finish line. How miserable is that? So, you want me to believe that you enjoy constantly traveling without ever arriving at a final destination? Come on, even I know that you don't truly believe that bologna. If chasing money, material possessions, and women are the only pursuits any man can ultimately achieve then why aren't we satisfied when we final obtain them?  

Until next time...

Walter Hunter
walter@menhavefeelingstoo.com
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