Men Have Feelings Too is at it again with Part 3 of our series, "Why Do Married Men Cheat." Before I reveal the next reason, I want to encourage you to value and respect your marriages. What do you do, how do you feel, or what's your mindset when you don't trust your spouse? Better yet, what about when you believe your spouse doesn't trust you? Five, four, three, two, one...The lack of trust is another reason why married men cheat. Since trust covers a very wide spectrum, let's jump right into the shallow end of the pool. Maybe, we'll get an opportunity to develop the rest of the film later.
First and foremost, trust is the backbone of any relationship. Within the masculine world, a woman's undeniable trust is paramount to everything she will believe. Initially, it's pure and saturated with innumerable liberties and concessions. However, the very moment it's compromised, it will cause the victim to doubt and question every motive and action demonstrated by the violator. This is where things can get a little tricky.
Generally, when a man violates a woman's trust, he expects her to be understanding, forgiving, and to quickly return back to how things used to be prior his violation. To him, a kiss is just a kiss. Better yet, sex is just sex. I know this may be hard for most women to comprehend but within his mind, he honestly believes his feelings weren't attached to his actions. He was simply caught up in the moment. As a result, he'll become exceedingly annoyed when he discovers that he can't sell this concept to his victim. Furthermore, if he's left in this state too long, he'll become tremendously frustrated with her and the relationship to the point of cheating again or leaving altogether.
Conversely, when he's the victim or believes she's being unfaithful, inwardly he knows that she was physically involved with whomever because of emotional attachment. This makes this situation difficult for most men to reason through. Typically, after the news breaks, he'll find immediate justification within his heart to be harsh or violent towards her regardless of her reasoning. In many cases, he will reciprocate to get even or cut her off altogether because he also knows he'll never be able to reclaim that piece of her heart that has been compromised forever.
Until next time...
Walter Hunter
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